And yet, here I am 13 days after my wedding and I don't have a clue how to begin putting into words the sheer magnitude of what took place and how I felt (and still feel). So my apologies if my wedding recaps seem a little scattered, out of order, and filled with a ton of pictures. I will also apologize right now for the sheer amount of posts that will soon follow. There are SO many things I want to talk about (and so many pictures to post).
So, as I patiently wait for our professional pictures to come back, I will start with the days leading up to the wedding and will then move onto our rehearsal.
Our wedding took place outdoors at my mom and step dad's house so I spent nearly every waking hour in the weeks leading up to the wedding working in their yard. And when I wasn't spreading mulch or laying down flooring under the tents I was finishing centerpieces and the other gazillion little details that needed to be done.
Besides all the "physical" work and the sore muscles I encountered, I would honestly say that the most difficult part of the entire process was when I finally had to open myself up to the idea that I needed help from family and friends in order to pull off this shindig. It was terrifying planning this huge party by myself, but for some reason in my mind I found it "more" terrifying to have to ask for help in doing it. And to my surprise, the moments in the days before the wedding where I recognized and accepted this as a necessity, will remain some of the most important and most memorable moments of the whole wedding process.
On the Friday before the wedding, my family, wedding party and close friends pulled together as a team. We had people hanging paper lanterns, stringing lights, ironing the linens, setting up centerpieces, folding napkins, putting final touches on our photo wall, pulling weeds and blowing leaves, and so much more! It was such beautiful chaos and it brings
|Centerpieces waiting to be distributed|
|200+ Paper lanterns|
|Brother in Law working on the photo wall|
|Grandma ironing the table linens|
|Best Friend Kevin blowing leaves off the "wedding aisle"|
|Bride to be with Mother in Law hanging Lanterns|