New Look

My "free" background that I was using for this blog was going to expire after tomorrow, so today I tried messing around with other backgrounds.  After the first 15 minutes I had so royally screwed up my page that I was almost ready to delete the whole blog.  But, I couldn't figure out how to back it up first so that option failed.

Somehow I have gotten it back to "semi" normal, but there are still a few things I can't figure out.

• How do I change the font color of my Post Titles?  When I had the damask background my Titles were in Red, but now they are sort of an orange color and I don't know how to change it.
• How do I change the color of my HTML links?  It used to be that if I clicked on a link in a post or if I clicked on one of the 'blogs I follow" it would turn red to let me know what I had already looked at it.  Now they are turning like a grey color and I can't even see it.

I've tried googling these things for answers, but I can't even follow the instructions given.  I'm being instructed to click on my "dashboard" and then click on "layout" but I don't even have a button called "layout".  This is all so ridiculous!!

Ugh....I hate technology!  I'm surprised I've actually been able to figure out half the things I do on this blog!!